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The Work of Changing Your Mind

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Changing a view has a social cost. Someone may remind us of what we said before, as though the earlier sentence were a contract that forbids further thought.

Consistency is useful when it means applying a standard fairly. It becomes less useful when it requires loyalty to an error. A person who revises an opinion after encountering better evidence has performed part of the work that serious thinking demands.

The revision should still be explainable. What changed? Was it a new fact, a stronger argument, or recognition of an assumption that had escaped notice? Without that account, flexibility can become another name for convenience.

We could make conversation more honest by receiving a well-explained change of mind without treating it as humiliation. The aim of an argument would then be easier to remember: to leave with a better understanding than the one we brought.


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